Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Now it's time to RETHINK

So you’re that individual who’s afraid of accepting all faces of reality. Reality can hurt you as well, it’s far from the perfect-happy-ending-fantasy like story that we often read from fictional books. Reality has that capability to break your expectations, but so what? I mean you have to deal with it or else you’ll end up ruining yourself because instead of facing it you will try to run as fast as you can to go somewhere farther, in that kind of place where you can build your fantasy-like reality, in that kind of place where you can hide all the pain for awhile, but surely it will come back and will hurt you big time (if you will not face it).

Have you ever thought of that idea that maybe if you tried to grow just a little bit? Or maybe thought of that idea that maybe you should stop living for yourself even for once? Or maybe just thinking that maybe other people are also hurt as you are that maybe sometimes it is not wrong to try to understand them as well? Rethink, because sometimes there’s no such thing as a next time. Maybe the things that you tend to leave now will never welcome you again; maybe because of your sudden disappearance you will destroy those things and will never cross your paths again.

Sometimes it’s not waiting that is considered as the most painful part but the fact that you realize that sometimes second chance or next time does NOT really exist.

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Once there was a girl and a boy...

So it was so exciting seeing two people risk their hearts and try to fall in love with each other, seeing how inseparable they are, and feeling that kind of security that their love for each other have. It was an ecstatic feeling that when you woke up everyday someone will be there to remind you that life is too beautiful and you should celebrate it.

But as time goes by expectations grow. Sometimes expectations tend to ruin beautiful relationship, it bends the trust of people for each other, and sometimes destroy hearts as well. Every relationship comes to this kind of point and people have to decide whether they will still continue the relationship despite of all the hurt that they can possibly feel or maybe choose the saddest yet the most advisable part, free yourself from the relationship and try to fix your relationship with yourself once more.

Well it'll be nice seeing two people trying to fix their so-called relationship but if the people in the relationship feel the pain so hard inside their hearts it'll be nicer if they'll just end it. If the ecstatic feeling will be gone it'll be nice seeing yourself whole again rather than being in a relationship but feeling so broken and empty everyday of your life because of the pain that you inflicted to each other. It'll be better seeing yourself whole again, seeing yourself smiling because you are you and you're not anyone else because at the end of the day the best relationship that you should maintain is YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF.